Missing Sandie Reflections, Week 9:
Friends Better Than Family: Proverbs 17:17: A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. This is hard to write. I don’t want to be critical. I am realizing Christian friends are more thoughtful and empathetic than family. I have received more condolences and care from Sandie’s and my Christian friends (from all the churches we’ve served) than from my in-laws. My in-laws from Sandie’s HK family visited her in 2024, but since she died, only one condolence response. My son-in-law and his family, nothing! (I hope this does not remain true.) I received a hand-written condolence card with scripture and a check from a friend I haven’t seen for twenty-five years! The meaning of the Proverb is when you’re in trouble or experiencing a loss you learn what family ties are for and who are really your friends. Unfortunately, family may not be faithful friends. Family may remain silent when you grieve. Family may even betray you (e.g., Jospeh and his brothers). It’s hard to let go of expectations. Release your expectations and you won’t struggle with bitterness and resentment. Release and heal your soul. The Spirit of God helps with this.
Wilenghart’s Wisdom 